1. What were my behaviors?
2. What impact did my behaviors potentially have on others?
3. What has the person who has been impacted by my behaviors say they need from me to address that impact?
4. What's my plan to change my behavior so I don’t repeat this in the future?
5. What resources, people, training or support do I need to change this behavior?

Adapted from Mariame Kaba and Shira Hassan's Fumbling Towards Repair 2019